Are you ready to create the most surreal and satisfying sex life of your LIFE? You deserve to be sexually satisfied; to have a sex life full of passion, intimacy, romance, pleasure, and fulfillment. Whether or not you are currently involved with a romantic partner, positive affirmations are a powerful tool that can help enhance your sexual energy, amplify attraction, and maximize pleasure in the bedroom. Let’s get started.
Why Your Mindset Matters: the Energy of Desire
Have you ever heard the quote, “Good sex starts outside of the bedroom?” What this means, is that attraction, desire, and lust begin between partners long before the physical act of sex occurs. It may be over the course of an evening, weeks, or months; but once the spark of connection is ignited, there are one of two outcomes that manifest. Outcome 1: Sexual tension grows. The spark becomes a burning flame and culminates in a big, fiery, orgasmic finale. You get some, and it’s fireworks. Outcome 2 is on the opposite end of the spectrum. That spark of connection doesn’t build. Instead, it flickers, dies out, and two partners- once full of so much potential and possibility- become strangers.
The purpose of this article is to explore one mechanism that has the power to both build and kill attraction. This mechanism can work for you and lead to outcome 1, or it could work against you and lead to outcome 2. This mechanism is your mindset. Your mindset is important because it determines the type of energy you give off; and what is sexual attraction, if not a powerful energetic connection between two people?
When you are confident in yourself and your body, when you have a positive, high-vibrational mindset, you give off a certain kind of energy. One that’s alluring, magnetic, and attracts others to you. When you think positive thoughts, ones that generate self-respect, self-love, and high self-esteem within you.. it shows. It radiates off of you. Your internal state is made external- visual and palpable. Your mind and body are inextricably connected whether you realize it or not! And hopefully, now you do.
On the flip side, when you are deeply insecure, needy, have low self-esteem and low-vibrational thoughts, well- that shows too. And, is a major turn off. Enough to extinguish the spark.
If you want to manifest a mind blowing sex life, you have to own your mindset in and out of the bedroom. You have to generate the kind of confident sexual energy that will create the positive sexual encounters you desire. And you can do this with the daily repetition of THESE positive affirmations:
Positive Affirmations for Sexual Confidence
- I embrace my sexuality and my sensuality.
- I am desirable, playful, and seductive in andout of the bedroom. I drive my partner wild.
- I am grateful for my body and the tremendous sexual pleasure it provides me.
- I deserve to feel good.
- I ooze confidence from every pore of my body. I have a radiant, magnetic energy that attracts my lover to me.
- I am irresistible.
- I am a sexual goddess. Sex is a spiritual, soulful energy exchange for me and the partner I choose.
- I am sexually and emotionally secure. I trust my ability to choose worthy sexual partners and to create meaningful connections.
- I am free and safe to explore my sexual desires.
- I am beautiful. I love my natural, gorgeous body that’s capable of giving and receiving so much pleasure.
- My body deserves to be caressed, loved, and treasured.
- Sexual arousal is a fun process. I am adventurous, comfortable, and confident in the bedroom.
- I trust my instincts. I have all of the skills and technique I could possibly need. I am good in bed, and am always open to getting better.
- I honor my sexual and emotional needs.
- I am free, whole, and complete.
Positive Affirmations for a Satisfying Sex Life
- I am comfortable and safe sharing my sexual desires and preferences with my partner.
- I know how to tell my partner what I want, what I like, and what I don’t want or like.
- I am masterful in creating sexual attraction and desire between my partner and I.
- I deserve a meaningful and passionate sex life.
- My libido is awake and alive.
- I am worthy of all the intimacy, pleasure, romance, and sexual connection that I desire.
- I embrace intimacy and I honor boundaries. I see and hear my partner. They see and hear me.
- I know how to please myself and I know how to please my partner. It comes naturally to me.
- My sex life is thriving. I am sexually fulfilled and satisfied.
- I am full to the brim of orgasmic, sensual, sexual energy.
- I am fully present in the bedroom, tuned in to all of the sensations available to me in my sexual experiences.
- Sex is a sacred space that my partner and I treat with honor and respect.
- Every sexual encounter is different, unique, and exciting. I am as sexually adventurous as I please to be.
- I am overflowing with love and gratitude.
- My bedroom is a safe sanctuary full of peace, freedom, and sexual satisfaction.
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